Skittles turns eight years old today. Well, pretty close at
least, since her little shelter puppy self had an estimated birthdate. I told my class today that it was my dog’s
birthday, and they asked how old she is.
When I answered, I found it a strange thought that my dog is almost as
old as they are. “Where did that time go?” I thought.
When you don’t
have children, it sometimes seems like time stands still. People (strangers) always comment to Brent
and me, “you’re still young” and we laugh, wondering at what age you are no
longer a “young couple” just because you don’t have kids. We like to tell ourselves that we, as adults,
don’t change much from year to year, because compared to children, we
don’t. Dogs are pretty much on an even
keel as well there for the middle years.
I’ve taken at least a thousand photos of my precious pup in the past
eight years, but I couldn’t eyeball a single one of them and tell you if it was
from last month or five years ago.
Sometimes I
don’t think about how long we’ve had Skittles because she has always looked the
same. Just like sometimes, I don’t think
about how I’ve changed because (short of a few extra pounds) I look the same as
I did eight years ago. But truth be
told, I have changed. Eight years ago, I
was still on track for the “perfect” life plan I’d had planned since I was
about twelve: get married right out of college and get a dog a year later to
prepare for the children we’d start having a couple of years after that. Two out of three ain’t bad, right? Funny how we think we’re in control of
our own lives.
Nowadays, I
realize it’s a lot more about how your life looks on the inside than how it
looks on the outside. It isn’t so much
about keeping score and checking off boxes on life’s to-do list, but instead
about growing as a person and in your relationships with whomever God HAS
placed in your life. Two out of three
certainly hasn’t been so bad for me, especially since I lucked up tremendously
on those first two. In fact, my marriage
is most definitely a gift from God rather than a stroke of good luck, and I’d
even venture to say picking this particular puppy from the animal shelter
website eight years back was more than just dumb luck.
Skittles didn’t
start out as the perfect puppy (though she was perfectly cute), but does the
perfect puppy even exist? Eventually,
her constant chewing turned into nuzzles and kisses, her wild jaunts through
the house slowed to a playful trot, and her curious, questioning eyes softened
to reflect trust and love. She is
smart, loyal, gentle, and at least to Brent and me, even funny. We get
asked all the time what kind of dog she is; she’s one-of-a-kind since we have
no idea. But to us, she’s perfect.
She gives me a
reason to smile on the darkest days and she makes me feel needed in those
moments when I feel useless. She shows
me unconditional love every single day.
And she reminds me that deep down, this is all that any of us want:
companionship. I don’t know if we’ll
have Skittles for eight more months or eight more years (I’m hoping for the
latter), but I do know one thing: I’m
grateful for the way she’s loved me through the ups and downs of these first
eight.
Happy Birthday,
Skittles!